Sexcapades

Hola mi amor, how have we been? It’s another Friday and time to get sexy 😉

He kissed down her neck, to the back of her ears. His palm enclosing her boobs as her bra and the rest of her clothes had been totally discarded at that point. She moaned low in her throat, as he nibbled on her cleavage while toying with her nipples. She was getting impatient and so worked on his shorts to reveal his manhood. The size of it was so intimidating, she let out a low whimper as she tentatively caressed the tip.
“Do you want that?” He asked staring directly at her. She nodded.
“Beg for it.” He whispered into her ears, his breathe tickling her ears.
“Please, f*CK me!”
He pulled back, grabbed her thighs and pulled her closer. Then in one swift move, thrusted into her as she released a loud moan, her p*ssy dripping wet and tight.

“Whose d*ck is making you feel this way?”
“Yours! Only yours.”

Consent is a very simple yet complicated topic it’ll seem. In my opinion, it’s a yes. Simple as can be. Not a maybe, not silence, not compliance, a simple straightforward yes. Lack of consent in a sexual arrangement is equal to rape or sexual assault and is punishable by law. Yet, it’ll seem so many people do not understand the mechanics of it. I have had so many conversations with people who feel that once a girl starts making out with you or allows you make out with her, that automatically means she wants to have sex. Okay, let’s pause for a sec.

It is very possible for someone to want to kiss and make out without having sex. It’s possible for one to wanna get down on eachother and not want to have sex. It is possible to want to do everything sexually possible besides actual penetration and it’s within one’s right.

Before having any sexually related activity with anyone, especially if you’re not romantically involved, be sure to have their explicit permission. Even if you are a couple, I don’t understand the fun there is in doing anything with someone who’s obviously not in the mood, Or not so obviously, which is why asking is important.

When you’re making out with someone, there are cues they leave that make it known if they would like to stop, and unless you’re not paying attention or just a flat out jerk, you’ll understand. For instance, you put your hands under her clothes, and she takes off the clothes, it’s obvious she wants to go on. But then you place your hands on her thighs and she squirms away or removes your hand, that’s an obvious way to say, “No, not there,” Or do you need a freaking placard? Now, it can get very confusing for a lot of you immature babies who might assume that just because she doesn’t want your hand there means she wants you to stop completely. That’s not entirely true, which again brings us back to “ASK!!!” It’s really not that difficult.

Girlfriend, if he keeps pulling your hand away from his crotch, or perhaps he doesn’t seem into the kiss, then he’s probably not into. Stop and check, to make sure you’re on the same page. From kissing, make sure he’s ready to make out. From there, make sure nudity is fine. Check in before proceeding to oral, and then the main thing.

For some of you who would say, it kills the mood to ask or bring it up. Uhm, first of all, don’t be a jackass. If she/he’s really into it, asking won’t “ruin” the mood. Secondly, there are ways to ask in a sexy manner you know, one of which I just illustrated up there.

Read cues, ask questions in a sexy way, Get between his legs and look up smiling, trust me you’ll know if he wants it. Tease her, what she wants is bound to spill from her, get creative with ways of asking and knowing but never ever disregard consent. It makes it so much more enjoyable for both people present if both people are present. You feel me?😉

Okay, guys. I’ll love to hear from you in the comment section. Do you like the short piece at the beginning and should I make a habit of it? Have you ever been in a tricky sexual arrangement with consent as the issue? What are your thoughts on consent in general? I’ll love to hear all your thoughts.

Till next week my loves. Stay safe, stay sane and stay healthy. And don’t forget, Consent is sexy!😌

Amy ❣️