You Are Not Enough

Hey people, shocking title am I right? I promise it’s not a click bait. But before we move on, how have you been? It’s been a while, I know and I offer my apologies. I’ve been alright, just taking it one day at a time. We made meatpies the other day at home and it was really nice too. Also, discovered this new place in my area where they make really great shawarma. Might even get one today πŸ˜‚. Anyways, enough about me, how have you been? Let me know down below. Now, to the post of today.

You’re enough, I’m sure you’ve heard this a million and one times and it’s true. You are beautiful enough, you’re special enough, talented enough, never doubt that. But sometimes, you’re not enough and that’s fine too. Let me explain.

Have you ever been in love with someone, so in love you cannot begin to imagine what your life would be like without them. But for some reason, even with them loving you just as much, y’all can’t be together? And then you start to wonder why, where did you go wrong? Why aren’t you enough?

People go through a lot of shit and have a whole lot demons and we always want to believe it’s gonna be us. We’re gonna pull them from that threshold, we’ll be enough reason for them to keep living and then we aren’t. We start to doubt ourselves, wondering why we weren’t enough for them to fight for, why our love and everything isn’t enough. Baby boo, you are enough, but sometimes you just aren’t enough for others and that’s fine.

Sometimes, you aren’t even enough for yourself. You feel inadequate, your self love is absent, we all have those days and then there are those things that help complete us. Great friends that remind us that we are enough and even if we aren’t, they would be for us.

There used to be a time I felt bad that my happiness and joy is dependent on people, that it’s dependant on my friends and family because I felt like the contentment should come from within. I realized that even when it comes from within, it’s as a result of what is all around us. It’s as a result of friends, family, fulfilment at your job, success at school, and so many other factors. The key is in allowing yourself be happy and grateful for those things.

So, it’s alright to feel you aren’t enough because really you aren’t, not always at least. You need assistance from friends and families. To help you fight your battles, to remind you of your worth on bad days, to help you stay happy. And it’s definitely not your fault that you weren’t enough to help someone fight their demons, that’s not your responsibility and it’s not as a result of your own worth. Just their state of mind.

I tell you today that allow others to complete you, find happiness in your friends, your job, your studies, career, hobbies and anything else and it’ll surely radiate through you. Do not get caught up in whether or not you feel enough and remember, your friends are there to complete you on bad days just as you are to complete them too. That’s how it should be.

So, that’s it. Do you agree with this or you have a counter opinion? I’ll love to hear all about it in the comment section 😊. Thank you for reading. Till next time, stay safe, stay sane and stay healthy. I love y’all.

Amy ❣️

Sexcapades

Hello smutty members of Amy’s Clan, welcome to this week’s post on…

Let me start by saying how sorry I am this is coming late. Honestly, network in Nigeria will disgrace you. This is why man din have strength to start YouTube channel abeg 😩. Finally, since Friday, after multiple attempts, and so many mb gone, my videos have uploaded. You’ll think it’s a 1hr video I’m uploading ooo, chaii. It’s not even up to 30 minutes, cumulatively.

So, this is basically me trying to clear up some misconceptions that people might be having and explain clearly the reason and passion behind sexcapades. I really hope you enjoy the video, and my beautiful face 🀭

IntroductionπŸ₯³
Main Juice πŸ˜‰
Outro πŸ’ƒπŸ½

I apologize for any and all noise interference, glitches and all other technical issues in the videos. If and when I upload another one, it’ll be better.

Now, I hope this answered your questions. If it didn’t please reply in the comment section and I’ll be happy to answer them. If you want some privacy, you can send me an email at; amyjummy@gmail.com. I can be OCD about somethings so trust me when I say, I’ll definitely see your email.

Did you enjoy this post? Would you like me to do more videos? Any suggestions, complaints or enquiries? Please put them all in the comment section, I really really love hearing from all of you.

Till next time, stay safe, stay sane and stay healthy. I love you all.

Amy ❣️

The Modern Feminist

Members of Amy’s Clan, it’s another week, another blog post. Welcome to

So, these past weeks, I’ve been hearing a lot of people say “oh, Feminists are just bitter women” and bla bla bla, I laugh at you. So, we all know about racial discrimination and how for as long as we can remember, the black man has been chanting “black lives matter” as well as taking to the streets to fight for their human rights. Are you gonna tell me that black people are just bitter people? Or you want to say it’s not the same thing? Let me break it down to you.

For years, centuries even, women have been made to go through so much brutality and violence just because they are female just like the black men and women.

For example, those of you who don’t know Female Genital Mutilation FGM, also known as female circumcision, is the partial or total removal of the female private parts. There are various levels to it including the removal of the clitoris and sewing up of the vagina leaving only a small hole for menstruation. This is done to girls of 13, 16 years of age. Just incase someone wants to tell me boys also get circumcised, traditionally, boys get circumcised at about 9 days after being born. That’s on age.

Reason? Boys are circumcised for religious and health benefits although it’s been scientifically proven that not being circumcised isn’t a bad thing medically. Not to mention, circumcision makes the male anatomy look better. Girls are cut because of selfish and appalling reasons. Apparently, it’s meant to reduce the sexual promiscuity in girls and make them stay “pure” for their husbands. That is why it is done at an age which they will remember the pain and restrict them from having anything to do with sex or anything about it. And this is just one aspect of it. You can read more about FGM here: Female Genital Mutilation

Now, there are honour killings done to females. According to Britannica, Honor killing, most often, the murder of a woman or girl by male family members. The killers justify their actions by claiming that the victim has brought dishonor upon the family name or prestige. Basically it means women are killed by their own family members for bringing “dishonour” to their household.

Now these crimes are as frivolous as not covering their hair, seen hanging around a guy. I read about a lady who was killed with acid by her brother because she took a selfie with her fiance and was on short sleeves. She was killed because her arms were exposed!!! Do you understand that?!!! You can read more on honour killings here: Honour Killings

Now, besides those ones there are the general but absolutely despicable things women have to endure every single day of their lives. The sexual harrassment and abuse every time, The cat calling, the groping, being raped, slut shaming, the list quite frankly goes on. All these happen to us, not for any other reason but the anatomy we were born with. No other reason.

As Solomon has so rightly said, I am a bitter Feminist. If that means that I am and will keep fighting for my rights then I’m bitter. If it means I will not tolerate any sexist, misogynistic or apologist behaviour, then I’m very bitter. And I will keep being bitter for as long as things like FGM exist especially so widely.

If for some reason, you are a black person who is tired of racism and it’s disadvantages but you don’t understand what my Feminist fight is about, then you need some re-evaluation because it makes no sense.

This post wasn’t supposed to be this long, but now that I think of it, it can even be longer. I hope you get it now. If you do, please share this anywhere you can till others get it too. We should all be Feminists.

I’ll like to hear your thoughts as always in the comment section, so please indulge me. Don’t forget to like and share. Till next time, stay safe, stay sane and stay healthy. I love you.

Amy❣️

Sexcapades

Pervy members of Amy’s Clan, welcome to this week’s post on…

Now, in the introductory post for SEXCAPADES, you’ll recollect I said something about sexy adventures. You know, besides being educated, I promised some entertainment. Well, my fellow hoes, today is the day for that!

For today’s post, we are doing hoe stories πŸ‘€. Who’s excited?!!πŸ₯³πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Calm your titties, I’ll drop them in a minute. There are two of them, one is complete and the other is to be continued. Now, hoe stories are not taking over this segment, we’ll still have our sex ed posts. This will just come in once in a while depending on how often I get them. Speaking of which, if you have any, you can send me a DM on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_amysartistry. Or send me an email amyjummy@gmail.com πŸ˜‰ and for those of you who know me personally, you can always text me on WhatsApp.

Now without further delay, I present you with hoe story number one…

Fans self while taking a cool drink. That was hot am I right guys? Now, looks a bit like a fictional story but it’s not πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. The individual is just a bit of writer, hope you enjoyed πŸ˜‰. Onto the next! This one is a bit longer.

Phew! That was long! And as the writer said, it’s some premium gist πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. I do hope you guys enjoyed them.

Do you guys like this? Would you like me to continue? Let me know in the comment section below. What did you think of the stories? Wild? Or you’ve done worse πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. I wanna hear all your thoughts in the comment section.

Also, don’t forget that you can send me your hoe stories and I’ll publish them. And of course as you saw above, total anonymity will be provided. This is a safe place πŸ˜‰.

Okay then my lovelies, till next time with another post. Stay safe, stay sane and stay healthy. Don’t be selfish, make sure to share too. Love y’all.

Amy ❣️

Just Amy

Hello members of Amy’s Clan and welcome to this week’s blog post on…

Honestly, this few weeks or so since my birthday I’ve barely been hanging by a thread πŸ˜‚. I’m overwhelmed and underwhelmed at the same time and I can’t even place my emotions or distress. Then this morning, a quote came to me

After I wrote that, I realized that that was exactly how I’ve felt for the longest time. How I’m feeling and I believe more people than should, can actually relate to it.

There’s so much pain around right now, mine and the pain of so many others and there’s this sinking feeling I get when I realize it’s another problem I can’t solve, one whose solution isn’t easily generated. A few days after my birthday, during the crux of #justicefortina, #blm and other related topics which I was very involved in were all over the internet, I had a panic attack. It was scary to say the least but honestly not unexpected.

Just 2 nights ago, I had a massive breakdown over the phone speaking to someone. When I went over what was bothering me with him I realized not a single one of the issues were personal. I mean they concerned me because they were my friends but I wasn’t directly linked to it. But my friends are hurting and quite frankly I’m tired of saying “I’m sorry”. It hurts that there’s not a single thing else I can say. Nothing else I can do.

A lot of the times, this is how we feel as humans. Even with issues that have to do with us directly but even more so, problems of our friends and family. The fact that you can do nothing but just listen and be there is very painful not to mention crippling.

However, he made me realize that, that’s enough. Those people realize that there really isn’t much to be done, and if there was you would in a heartbeat. All they really ask of you is to be there, just hold them and listen to them. I know you want to do more, God knows I wish I could too, but the painful truth is there is nothing to be done. This isn’t to say that there aren’t situations where something can be done, and if you’re in one please do something. But if there’s really nothing you can do and you know that, instead of letting that helplessness cripple you and make you unavailable to even be there, focus on the fact that you’re doing all you can.

I know that is easier said than done but please try. For yourself and for your friends. Don’t exhaust yourself too thinking of the helplessness of the situation, because then even the little help you can offer, you’ll be unable to.

This is a shorter post than usual but I hope you get the message all the same. In your personal troubles or those of family and friends, do not let the knowledge of the things you can’t do incapacitate you, instead draw energy from the little you can do.

I hope you’re fine and this meets you well. Don’t forget to stay safe, stay sane and stay healthy. Till next time, I love you guys.

Amy ❣️

Sexcapades

Hello members of Amy’s Clan, we are in for a bit of a serious discussion today so, buckle up and welcome to…

Before I start, I’ll like to say something really quickly. This has been a tremendously stressful and traumatic period for me and I’m sure a whole lot of people. If as a creative/creator, you still manage to create content as you usually do, you have no idea how much strength resides in you, kudos! Now, to the discussion of the day

From the absence of a flash fiction above, I’m sure we can already sense that this isn’t a regular post and it’s a little serious and it is.

I hear about this a whole lot but I didn’t really believed that it happened in real life until this #saynotorape revolution started. So, apparently, according to some women, NO means NO but no, sometimes also means “try a bit harder” or something like that. So apparently, some women go to a guys place, he wants to get down on her, she refuses and he respects her choice only for her to get home and send him a text or talk over the phone of how he should have tried harder? That she was expecting him to force her or something like that. Some females actually see a guy that respects their decisions as not “manly” enough? Good lord! Where to start from?

Ladies, ladies, ladies, if you do this or you think it’s appropriate, please put your hand on your chest and say “I am part of the problem, I am an enabler and that has to change because it is wrong.” Done that? Thank you

Now, I know for the longest time that sexual liberation has been almost impossible for the female folks of our beloved society and it is a work in progress. But darling, if you do that please stop. I’ll tell you why. You see when you tell a guy that, you make it seem like that’s what all females want and due to the fact that we still have a bunch of gullible guys who think all women are the same, some believe it. Now, he goes on the next girl, who genuinely wants him to stop but he thinks she’s just like you and he doesn’t. Or you find yourself in a position where you really want him to stop, but he doesn’t. This doesn’t in any way excuse the behaviour and no should always mean no. You can see where some confusion can erupt from when you’ve told him that your no means yes but I’m playing hard to get. Please stop!!!

There’s absolutely nothing to be ashamed of if you want sex. You wanna have sex? That’s natural and normal, open your big mouth and say so, you don’t? Open you mouth and say so. Stop being so utterly childish and putting not just yourself, but other females in danger.

And for the guys, I really cannot stress this enough, NO means NO. Don’t let anyone put you in trouble. Even if she sends that text saying you should have tried harder, the next time she or anyone else says no, please stop. Do not manipulate or gaslight any female into saying yes and you know it in your heart when a female really doesn’t want to and only says so to stay out of trouble.

That is what I’m referring to by manipulating or gaslighting or downright threatening. I believe even a contract signed under duress is null, so is consent gotten under duress. If a female isn’t in a position to say no due to some circumstances that you have put in place and you have sex with her, it’s rape.

Bottom line, ladies please make up your mind and be unapologetic about it. There’s no shame in sex and if you feel ashamed then you probably shouldn’t be having it yet until you figure out why you feel that way. Guys! NO is NO and will always mean NO. Do not let any indecisive and confused female to put you in any kind of trouble.

I believe even if I didn’t communicate this in the most understandable language due to the enormous stress I’m under, we are all smart enough to understand what the message is.

Guys, have you ever heard of this absurdity before? What’d you think of it? I wanna hear your thoughts in the comment section, so please indulge me🀭.

Still, I love you all (except you’re a rapist, an apologist or enabler then I don’t) so please stay safe, stay sane and stay healthy. Till next time.

Amy ❣️

Just Amy

It’s Our Fault

It’s my fault.
It’s my fault for wearing that short red skirt.
I shouldn’t have gone to my friends place,
It’s my fault that I stayed even when she wasn’t home.

It’s my fault that I didn’t go where I was sent.
I stayed behind even after he shut the doors.
It’s my fault that at age 9, I trusted my best friend’s brother.
I should have turned around immediately and gone home.

It’s my fault for going to the markets with my breasts.
I should have left them at home with the rest of my parts.
It’s my fault my hair was properly styled,
I shouldn’t have done more to be appealing.

It’s my fault I got in before him.
He looked like my grandpa so I trusted him.
It’s my fault for not stopping the vehicle,
I allowed this happen, I should have said something.

It’s her fault for having a father.
She could have found a way to kill him before she became desirable,
If only that wasn’t happening from day one;
Before she even knew how to smile.

It’s her fault for going to his house.
He claimed to love her but still,
She should have stayed home.
Practice Shakespearean love but look at her, a whore.

It’s our fault
For having a vagina,
For allowing our breasts grow the way they should have.
It’s our faults for arousing you.
So I guess, you’re right.

Β© Amy’s Artistry

I’m sure you already know where this post is headed and I doubt there’s anything I can say now that hasn’t already been said but I can’t say anything else. I want to write about something else, something that has nothing to do with the increasing number of rape cases in this country, the increasing number of apologists and victim shamers. Just about anything will do but I’ve come up short.

It looks like my pen cannot bleed anything but hurt and grief for the lives lost and sanity snatched but I do not get why it seems so many other people are no affected. I thank God for the friends I have else I would have lost my mind. The way so many people are not at all affected by what’s happening is just… I don’t even know. So many people making me feel crazy for being affected by this. Which sane person isn’t? How can you be calm and Ok with all this happening? I just want to know how because you being so calm is frustrating.

Your Lack Of Outrage is Outrageous

And if you don’t get that by now, lol I don’t even have words. Like I said, there’s nothing to be said that hasn’t been said. I’m so drained and exhausted, I need a break. For those of us who this is affecting, I plead that you take a break. Tend to your wounds. Tomorrow we’ll pick up the guns and fight again but for today, rest.

Take care of your sanity, protect your space. Feel free to mute and block apologists. Refuse to be gaslighted by anyone and trust me people will try.

What you should never ever do is allow yourself to be silenced because then they win and we cannot let them win.

I apologize for the exhaustion you’re feeling, I’m so sorry that you are so tired and feel so unsafe. Hopefully it gets better soon, but that can’t happen with you and me. Your voice, my voice, our voice.

Before you leave, I ask that you take the time out to sign this petition to end sexual violence. Please add your voice to this fight πŸ™. Thank you. http://chng.it/65x5gqYN

Also, let’s try to do this just like I have at the top of my post and share on our platforms. It’ll really go a long way so please lend your voice.

Till next time then. Stay safe, stay sane and stay healthy. I love you guys.

Amy❣️

Sexcapades

Hey guys, it’s another sexy Friday. And that means it’s time for…

He grabbed my hair and pulled, smashing his lips into mine. I moaned deep in my throat, my hands busying themselves as they unbuttoned his shirt. He kissed my jaw and down to my neck, sucking and nibbling at some points. He stepped back to pull my spaghetti strap blouse off my body, I was braless so my perky breasts stood, my nipples hardened.

Fuck!” He swore under his breath. He pulled me towards him and kissed me hard again. His palm covering my boobs as his thumb and forefinger toyed with my nipples. I couldn’t help the low moan in my throat or the scream that came out when he pulled them. I helped him pull his shirt off as he led me to the bed. I laid down, in just my shorts and he in his. He was on me again, spreading kisses on my body. Going lower with each kiss, his hands following through. He soon got to my thighs, and he pulled my shorts off. He continued kissing lower, the inside of my thighs. Lower, to my knees and my feet. Then he popped my toe into his mouth and sucked. I snapped out of my daze, and pulled my legs to myself.

“What the f*ck?” I asked incredulously.


Hollup, hollup, hollup. I know what you’re thinking. If anything is gonna be sucked during a sexual encounter, we should limit it to nipples and dicks. So, why would anyone go on and be sucking toes? Lol, let’s talk about that shall we.

Sexual fetishism or erotic fetishism according to Wikipedia, is a sexual fixation on a nonliving object or nongenital body part. The object of interest is called the fetish; the person who has a fetish for that object is a fetishist. A sexual fetish may be regarded as a non-pathological aid to sexual excitement, or as a mental disorder if it causes significant psychosocial distress for the person or has detrimental effects on important areas of their life. Sexual arousal from a particular body part can be further classified as partialism.

So, now that we’ve gotten the big words out of the way, let’s break this thing down shall we?

A fetish basically means when someone likes a part of another’s body that isn’t the private parts. Or love for an activity that isn’t particularly conventional when it comes to sex. There are series of them ranging from regular ones like impact play which includes spanking etc… To much more weird ones like electrostimulation, which is exactly what you are reading. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Chances are you have a fetish, you might not know and it might not even count as one but almost everyone does. Do you enjoy staring at hands and fingers, find them particularly beautiful to look at? That’s a fetish. Perhaps, you enjoy being chocked, called some names or a certain amount of pain, there’s a place for you. It might be something as casual as role play or much more crazy like wax play or water sports. Whatever that thing is that just doesn’t fit into the conventional sex boundaries, it’s a fetish.

Now, fetishes aren’t a bad thing as long as it isn’t impairing your day to day life or leading you to do terrible things. For instance, if you’re a voyeurist, that means you enjoy watching people get it on. But that’s not the same thing as a peeping tom because like we’ve already established, consent is strictly adhered. Everything has to be done within the confines of consent.

There’s no particular reason for why people have fetishes and since it’s not exactly a problem, there are no treatments or cure. However, it could be weird if you try to get it on with someone and they’re interested in something weird. Let’s say your pee for instance or maybe even your feet like the story above πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

This is why communication can never be over emphasized. It cannot be skipped or replaced with anything, you simply have to communicate. Before moving into anything sexual related, be it casual or a more commited relationship, it is important to ask these questions. It doesn’t have to be serious questions or a strict and formal situation like the one with Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey in fifty shades of grey where they were discussing the terms of their contract. (Any fans here?πŸ˜‰)

You could just go ahead and talk about what you like and see if the person is on board with it and if they happen to have things they like too. Now, I get that sometimes, we don’t know what we like and that’s fine. There are limits for everyone but even at that you always know that thing that is a soft limit for you, that is you’re willing to try it out and see if it works and that which is a hard limit, that is no way in hell you’re trying it out.

Do your research and then talk about it with your partner. For instance, for the longest time, I’ve known I love impact play. I love being spanked, my hair being pulled and all that. When I knew that, I had never tried it out before so I wasn’t 100 percent sure but I knew I wanted to find out and I did. Some things however, I know I never wanna find out. Not because they’re bad, just because I know I don’t like it at all.

This brings us back to our important points;

  • Figure out your body and what you like.
  • Do your personal research
  • Communicate, communicate, COMMUNICATE!!!

Fetishism can be a scary thing, especially when you come across weird ones that you don’t understand. But they can also be good and make sex much more enjoyable and wholesome. It also creates a new level of intimacy with your partner when you both have things you enjoy besides actual sex. So, don’t be shy and don’t feel weird. No matter how unusual you think your fetish is, I can guarantee you’re not alone in it.

So my loves, do you think you have a fetish? Ever had a weird encounter like the one above? Or what are your thoughts generally on the subject? I’ll love to hear your thoughts in the comment section so please indulge me. Don’t forget to like it and share if you enjoyed this post. Till next time, kisses.

Amy ❣️

The Modern Feminist

Hey guys, welcome to…

So guys, if you haven’t already noticed, we are doing things a little differently this week. Below are videos which have been segmented for today’s topics. I hope you enjoy them!

Introduction
Segment 1: Standard Of Beauty
Segment 2: Sexism
Outro

So, that was fun! How did I do? Would you like for this to continue? What are your thoughts on the topic today? You know I love to hear from you, so drop your comments!!!

Amy ❣️

Sexcapades

Heyo peeps and hoes alike, I’m sorry I missed last week’s post. Was feeling incredibly under the weather and my editor said not to post, so as not to risk substandard stuff. I’m still slightly ill, took my last injections today but we mooooove. Welcome to this week’s post on,

Malik promised to make love to me in a different way this time. had watched a lot of videos and read articles during the lockdown on how well to make love in ways your partner would never forget. I was enthusiastic and overjoyed, I got shivers when he said things he’d do to me and it felt like finally, I’d probably get my long deserved orgasm.
Fast forward and nothing feels different. He still kissed the rough way he does, he doesn’t even understand my body and my receptors to him. He kept pounding into me to fuel his ego “….you like that baby, you do?” And I’d moan and say yes to just fill it all the more. He is gonna cum, time to get into character, again.
“Yes baby, I’m gonna cum” I whispered to him, making my eyes roll and twitching a little.
“Me too”. He roared back. He got up and walked away to the bathroom and that was it. Another day, Another faked one

This scene would look very familiar to a number of us, maybe not the exact same situation but the end point. If it does, I’m sorry baby.

Over the years, it’s no news that girls have perfected the act of faking orgasms. At this point, the skill is almost ranked as high as cooking to be a “wife material.” Due the fact that so many guys are walking upandan with zero knowledge of sex and what it entails and girls are scared of asking for more for fear of looking like a “slut” or bruising his ego, we have many “Maliks” running around.

I wanna address the guys, but not yet. You guys matter is come back and meet, abowaba loro yin. (Ask a Yoruba person if you don’t understand)πŸ˜‚.

Girls, it’s you I wanna talk to fess. I need to know why you’re doing your sisters like this na. Don’t you understand what you do when you allow that boy to do nonsense on you in the name of making out or whatever. I won’t lie and say I’ve never been there, I have. So many fakes, when it really happened I wasn’t even sure sef. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

When you make a guy believe he made you orgasm, he goes around feeling like a champ who knows what he’s doing and he wants to spread it to the world as per master orgasm maker. In that vein, you are doing your sisters a great disservice because she has to endure a guy who not only doesn’t know what he’s doing, but has a inflated ego due to your lies.

Ladies, please talk to these men abi boys deni. Tell them if what they’re doing isn’t working, tell them what makes you tick, what parts of your body makes you weak in the knees. Don’t just lie there and allow them jab and poke you incessantly in the name of foreplay. If he tries to guilt trip you or anything, please walk out. You deserve better than that man child.

Now, guys, I honestly don’t understand how you can be so oblivious. I don’t blame you sha, but a lot of you have never made your girlfriend cum once in a 2 years relationship with an apparently active sex life. Ask questions, ask questions, ask questions. I mentioned this in my first post, don’t assume you know something because you read it somewhere. The body of a female is as unique as a snowflake, no two are alike. Even if you saw something somewhere, and you wanna try it out, that’s great. But check reactions, ask her if she likes it, if it feels good. Does her pussy clench against your fingers, is she dripping wet, are her eyes rolled so backwards it’s practically white or is it shut sooooo tight from pleasure. Not saying this is what happens with everyone, just pointing out different generic reactions.

If you are an attentive lover, some things can’t be faked. Make sure you put her in a situation where she’s comfortable enough to talk about stuff without being scared to bruise your ego or whatever. At that point, your mutual pleasure is more important. There’s something you don’t even realize, it’s that if a girl genuinely enjoys sex with you and gets proper orgasms, it’s you that will get tired. She’ll want to do it again and again. If your girl seems uninterested in sex find out if it’s due to a low libido or if you’re just crap at it.

So please boys and girl, let’s stop cheating ourselves abeg. If both parties enjoy it, the better it is for everyone.

As usual boos and baes, I wanna hear your thoughts. Have you been in such a situation? What do you think of it in generality? Till next time my lovelies, stay sane, stay safe and stay healthy.

Amy ❣️

Flash Fiction At The Top By: Oluwasemilore “Alpha” Adekanmbi

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